Proverbs 25:9-12 (The Message) In the heat of an argument, don't betray confidences; Word is sure to get around, and no one will trust you. The right word at the right time is like a custom-made piece of jewelry, And a wise friend's timely reprimand is like a gold ring slipped on your finger.
Psalm 86:15 (New International Version) But you, O Lord, are a compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness.
If our God is slow to anger and display it then we need to hold our temper. We lose the confidence and respect of those around us when we demonstrate our anger. We can use softly spoken words and get better results than if we yell or scream. When someone starts getting loud as their speaking to me, I politely tell them that I am not yelling at them and thereby giving them respect and if they wish to continue the conversation then they must show me respect as well by lowering their voice. Too often we are tempted to join in the contest of volumes but there is often no resolve to this contest. All parties involved are traumatized, the ones doing it find no relief and the witnesses often become frightened and lose confidence in both sides. Be slow to anger, choose your words carefully and speak softly. The scriptures did not tell us to remain silent when there are wrong situations but it also tells you how to approach others when dealing with them.
Love and God Bless,
Cindy Irwin
